Malise Hartley
Dip. Psych. MBACP UKCP
Transpersonal Integrative Psychotherapist
I offer an active, engaged form of psychotherapy for people who want to understand themselves more deeply and live with greater honesty and freedom.
I work particularly well with thoughtful people with rich inner lives, and those with creative minds. I also enjoy working with people whose minds move quickly or non-linearly, including many people with ADHD. I am particularly interested in the parts of people that have not fitted comfortably with the expectations of others.
My approach is integrative, with strong existential, psychodynamic, Jungian, transpersonal and somatic influences. I am interested not only in what has happened to you, but in how you are living now: where you feel most yourself, where you adapt or hide, what feels essential to you, and what gets in the way of being real with other people.
Therapy with me is conversational and collaborative. I will ask questions, offer thoughts, notice patterns and sometimes challenge you. I also want you to feel able to disagree with me or tell me when I have misunderstood something.
Dreams, imagery, bodily sensations, creativity and spiritual or uncanny experiences can all have a place in the work if they matter to you. I take these experiences seriously without imposing a belief system or fixed interpretation on them.
I pay close attention to what happens in the body and in the relationship between us. Sometimes understanding something intellectually is not enough. We may notice patterns of tension, defence, vigilance or withdrawal as they happen and discover that they can begin to let go.
Honesty, curiosity and humour are important parts of how I work.
Areas I particularly work with
Trauma — including PTSD, depersonalisation and derealisation
ADHD — including attention, motivation and organisation, but also shame, frustration and the experience of feeling different
Anxiety — including generalised anxiety, social anxiety and insomnia
Anger — understanding anger, boundaries and the feelings or needs beneath it
Identity and self-esteem — particularly where you have spent a great deal of your life adapting to other people
Existential questions — meaning, loneliness, difficult choices, mortality and direction in life
Creativity — including writer's block, performance anxiety, fear of failure and the relationship between creative work and inner life